1. Hit up the Mod Contact page with your general idea on what you're looking for (whether it's court gossip/investigating something specific/generally wandering around), your goal (what you're hoping to find/hear/do), if you have any related questions, and whether you want to thread something more concrete out or just handwave it.
2. There's not much (yet, at least; there might be some library collection development in the future 😉), but asking questions of the Court Rulers about those when they post might yield those answers.
There's a couple things that Spike might be able to glean from what is in the books currently, though:
The fae have a low fertility rate; that plus their long-lived-ness mean that having children isn't as emphasized as it is among humans.
Seelie tend to be friendlier and more social, Unseelie tend to be more independent and solitary.
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2. There's not much (yet, at least; there might be some library collection development in the future 😉), but asking questions of the Court Rulers about those when they post might yield those answers.
There's a couple things that Spike might be able to glean from what is in the books currently, though: